Psychology of criticism
Firstly , it is important
to understand the concept of criticism. It can be verbal, expressed
bu verbs or non- verbal, when it is expressed with the help of some
kind of behavior or action. Criticism can be from one person to
another when point of view, opinion is criticized, or it can be
impersonal when some organization, company's policies or views are
criticized.
In the privacy of our
hearts, there are only two possible ways to receive criticism: badly
or worse. What is criticism? Criticism is the practice of judging
the value and faults of something or someone in an intelligible or
articulate way.
To criticize does not
always means "to find fault", but the word is often taken
to mean the simple expression of an objection against harm, or a
disapproval. Often criticism involves active disagreement, but it may
only mean "taking sides". It could just be an exploration
of the different sides of an issue.
Criticism can be used
everywhere these days: At home, public places and even in your
workplace. People like criticizing each other at work, like one
colleague another or senior specialist some junior one. Often we
learn to ice over those injured feelings with a smile. And in the
space between that private wince and the public smile there is
something to be gained. It's called professional growth—if you can
get yourself there.
Criticism at home is one
of the those that hurts best. Sometimes we rudely criticize our room
mates or family members when there is no point of doing that, and
later apologize or regret for that. Rude and spontaneous criticism
can cause domestic argument, quarrel, disappointment, discomfort. We
have to be very careful about the words we use to criticize our
partner or a flatmate.
What concerns criticism
it is often presented as something unpleasant, but it needs not be.
It could be friendly criticism, friendly discussed, and some people
find great pleasure in criticism ("keeping people sharp",
"providing the critical edge"). Friendly criticism helps to
develop personality in several ways: it can result in gaining more
knowledge, being more careful, avoiding bad habits, changing life
style, improving behavior and manners.
Another meaning of
criticism is the study, evaluation, and interpretation of literature,
art work, film, and social trends (see the article links below). The
goal of this type of criticism is to understand the possible meanings
of cultural phenomena, and the context in which they take shape. In
doing so, the attempt is often made to evaluate how cultural
productions relate to other cultural productions, and what their
place is within a particular genre, or a particular cultural
tradition.
All in all criticism can cause harm as
well as good things. Criticism can hurt or offend people. Getting
negative feedback never feels good, but you can learn to use it to
your own advantage. Besides, it's usually a sign that you're moving
forward, moving up and gaining something valuable.
References
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200607/criticism-taking-the-hit
http://www.psychoid.net/an-overview-of-criticisms-of-psychology.html
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